Personally I don't see you moving out as having any benefit other than making your life more miserable. I mean, did you want to leave? Sounds like you didn't.
In my sitch, my W asked me to leave. I literally laughed at her and asked her why when SHE was the one who was "miserable", SHE was the one who was having an A and SHE was the one who felt uncomfortable.
That was the first time I put my foot down and told her that if SHE had a problem with her life then she had to deal with it and not cause everyone else problems. She left and I'm glad I stayed.
I feel that sometimes the WAS has to hit rock bottom to see what they're missing in their S. But if you cave in to everything they want without taking a stand, then sometimes they'll take advantage of it.
In your sitch, your leaving doesn't seem to serve any purpose. Or at the very least, your exit of telling her that you're leaving in the "hope" that she will change her mind is a bit weak. If you had real personality issues, then change them. But what is it that YOU want? You have to start thinking about your needs for a bit and not have your life controlled by what your W wants.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
