First off, I agree with that it seems your W is in an EA. I mean who texts that many times to a "friend"? Plus, women won't typically leave a R unless they have someone else to run to. Not all the time, but I find that's in most of the cases. That's how my W was.
While agree that the EA shouldn't be the main focus of your efforts, understand that it will be harder for your W to see any changes until thoughts of the OM is gone or unless your W actually says she wants to make an effort to save your M.
I personally don't agree with moving out because if you are fine with being at home, then stay home. If she feels uncomfortable about it, she should be the one to move. Plus some legal counselors have suggested that leaving the home means you're abandoning it and may not look too good in favor of the courts.
So, to get started, what were the things that your W complained about you in the R? What were the issues? Have those been addressed? In terms of the OM, what do you think made him seem more attractive than you?
Be honest and post here.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
