I am getting more convinced that space from him would be a good thing right now, whatever the end result. You are not taking care of yourself, and it's getting to you physically, mentally, and emotionally. Which means that you really are not in a place where you can make good decisions as long as he is there.
THANK YOU. This makes a lot of sense to me. HUGE HUGS back.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence