Why do you allow contact from him? What did you do when he was kissing you? Did you pull back and tell him "no"? Why have you continued to share an email account?
He doesn't need you to be his mother. Sorry, I'm not trying to be cold-hearted, but you have to stop allowing him to treat you like he does. I'm not seeing where you've put your foot down and said, "It stops today". You may not be able to stop his A with OW, but you can stop receiving the BS he's giving you! You can stop his contacting and certainly his physical "affection".
Acting like a desparate housewife is not attractive to he WAS. Showing some spunk & sass would come closer to a much needed 180.
You did good when you did not rescue him from OW's H. You must learn not to rescue him in other ways as well. I know what you are thinking before you even respond b/c it's been said by most LBS's before. But here's the thing....his parents knew he was suppose to be there, right? So, they could check to see if he had any problems arriving.....not his LBW.
It seems that he needs a real shaking up, and so far he hasn't had it. Don't throw in the towell b/c you are tired of him hurting you! Get a different attitude and then decide what you want to do. Don't "wait" to see what he's going to do. You take power and control over your own life & happiness.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
