No, she was into it when we were younger, except for the orgasm part and being touched in her private areas.
Hmmmm .... yeah. That's like saying "She was into gardening, except for the getting your hands in the dirt part" or "She liked golf, except for the hitting the ball bit".
I feel really sad for you SSMGuy. There is a whole world of sensuality and sexuality that you just have no experience of and no idea about.
You remind me a bit of my xhusband. Maybe it's a generational thing? (He's 56 now) To him, sex was a couple of minutes of fondling, and 3 - 5 minutes of sex, a quick cuddle and intimacy is over for another 3 days. The poor man just didn't know any different - and I didn't either given I married him when I was a sexually inexperineced 24 year old.
Sex with new lovers after I was divorced was such a revelation. It's passionate and intimate and it takes longer than 5 minutes. Sometimes it takes 5 hours. Soemtimes all weekend.
If you had an issue like this at work - where one of your staff just refused to do a part of their job that was reasonably essential to making the bottom line - either because they didn't know how to or didn't want to - how would you handle it?
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
