Joel - Just realized that you are located in Colorado. Let me know if you do decide to consult an attorney. I would be happy to get you a referral. Again, I don't do divorce law. Also, keep in mind that many attorneys will do free consultations. You can usually learn a lot from doing a couple of those with different attorneys. Sorry to keep harping on this, that just scares me that your wife is threatening to move your kids out of state.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce