Sorry sgctxok, our interactions right now are about the kids. I am trying to work on the finances on my end to try and keep the house. The older 2 don't care for there mom and what she done and how she has behaved over the past 9 months. She goes out with her GF's now. Again says she just wants to be free. Feels responsible for me. I ask her how? but never get a straight answer.