Each timeline is different but the one thing that is common is that it takes time. As a point of reference my W dropped the bomb Aug 2009, moved out March 2010 and the only thing we talked about the entire time was in reference to our children. It wasn't until Oct 2010 that my W approached me regarding the possiblity of reconciliation.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
