YOU personally think. Isn't that just a little judgemental and maybe just a tab bit controlling.
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this person she hangs out with when she goes out is a bad influence
If ya didn't know I'm a hispanic male from NY. One of my cousins...is a really nice guy that has some issues. He was in prison for robbery. IF I have a beer with him. Does that make me a robber?
Bottom line...each of us choose how we live. Your wife will make her own choices.
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this person is going thru a divorce
50% of the people in this country divorce.
Stop looking for an excuse to try and control her.
You don't want her to go...well then say it. If she goes..well then her actions are speaking much louder than her words.
And FTR, any good R is based in trust. If you are worried about her going out with a "bad influence" what are you going to do when she goes to work or goes food shopping. You can't control her. Trust her or let her go.
You choose.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
