W knows that OM needs to be out of the picture and out of her life forever. I also feel that she knows what has to be done.
W tried calling the office while I was in a meeting. I was going to call her back in an hour or so to talk about NYE.
I was thinking of a combination of everyone's responses and saying to W that New Years Eve could be fun and I would be interested if you are unattached. However, I have decided that I will not consider reconciliation or hanging out until then. I've got a few possible plans in the works.
While typing this up W has tried calling my office and my cell phone.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10