Your emotional connection is broken with your spouse, that's clear. If you are going to take action to restore any sort of relationship, you need to take action yesterday, in my humble opinion.
She's still living with you, you still have a good chance, its so much more difficult when they leave.
Get Divorce Busting, Divorce Remedy pronto and the Five Love Languages.


BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.