I've been following your thread, and keeping my thoughts to myself. You see, I'm a pretty cynical person. If I put myself in your position, I understand the overwhelming giddiness of possibility, but distrust human nature.
You seem to be keeping your expectations to zero, and that is great; just don't be reeled back in for a session of cake eating.
Someone recently asked if I would take my H back if he crawled up the driveway on his hands and knees begging. My answer is no. Actions speak louder, as they say, and that dramatic gesture is just that, a gesture. Seriously going into counseling, doing the hard work, that will impress me.
I hope I haven't rained on your parade. I hope and pray that this is coming true for you, and that your H is sincere. Just protect yourself on all fronts, and by doing that, you will be protecting your children, as well.
