No, she told me how she was tired of my emotional roller coaster and how I would lash out at the kids and how she felt like I was her 3rd child and how she'd be a fool to try again and that she doesn't love me anymore. All music to my ears!
I just validated what she said. I kind of knew how she felt, but having her open up again was good even though she was saying all those hurtful things, which in and of itself weren't that hurtful since I knew them already.
The one positive thing she said is that she misses and will miss doing things as a family.
All that being said, she is still willing to put a halt to her progressing with things, understands that I have no expectations and we'll have to take it from there. She wasn't distant and she was engaged in the conversation, too which was a difference.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11
