Yep, that is exactly the situation. She will have a birthday party for my 6 year old son with all his school friends, relatives and her friends then phone me on the way home with my son to tell me about it.
I leave her for a few days and she is sending me hugs in emails etc. I get sucked back in and then the expectations start to happen.
I too need it to stop so I can move on in a healthy way.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09