Crossroads

[Kemper]

I have been thinking about W's text for the last couple of hours. I was thinking of responding with the following.

Are you still involved with OM?

If her answer is yes then I was going to say, I have decided that I will not consider reconciliation or hang out until I know it is over with OM.

If this is the correct approach then my question is around confirming it is over with OM. I have seen different views on transparency mentioned on the board, some say to do it others say not to. Do I state that a no contact letter needs to be sent? I am just thinking about how to state it without it coming across as controlling if that is the correct path to take.