It's not so much trying to "read" something out of her actions/words. It's more trying to get a sense of where some of these "What the hell just happened?!" moments come from with our MLC spouse(s).
Sorry dude…but bullchit…you are trying to “read” something out of her actions/words. What do hope to accomplish with “getting a sense of some of these things”? Really man – what? What I can tell you is that you have to let her go man. Let her live her life the way she want too.
The more you look at her….the less time you are looking at YOU.
So, what if she decides to change toilet paper…say she moves from Charmin to Angel Soft. Does that mean anything? What if she decides to start cooking latin food instead of asian food? What does that mean?
It could mean anything.
Mental the hardest thing for many of us to grasp is that we are not in control of what our MLCer do.
Please buddy keep the focus on YOU.
Have a happy new year.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
