DB101….if it is not working do something different. That said….
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I am just resentful that he has all the free time he wants to do what ever he wants, when he wants
I’m tellin ya girl….get the kids ready, find out when he is going to be home and then drop them off and take some time for Kissak. This would be “doing something different”.
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I am resentful that I am here struggling everyday to make ends meet, taking care of the kids 24/7.
So what ya gonna do about it?
Make end meet…..hey cut back where you can. You will be surprised at how cutting out just a few small expense can help. If your anything like me your trying so hard to keep the kids in the life that they are used to. I understand this. Just remember that YOUR kids need to see a very happy mommy…do not lose sight of this. So, what will make YOU happy?
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While he sits around letting his gf take care of him and he has all the funds to do whatever with
You a victim or a survivor? Kissak, honestly….f*ck the girlfriend. Change what you are thinking about (DB 101 “thought stop”).
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He said he would try....nice
AND if he does not do it…what are you going to do….swoop in and fix it? If so, why?
Chin up girl!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
