XH is off his pedestal and I'm moving forward

[MHL]

GAG,

I will share something with you on a more intellectual note....

I am not sure our MLCer's will ever see the lack of logic in their decisions they made whilst in the storm.....they made decisions based on what they could see at the time. There is no amount of convincing you will be able to do with Mr. GAG to show him what a horse's a$$ he was and what terrible decisions he made and that they were all his fault.

We as the LBS, are going to have to suck it up!!! Now coming here to vent about it is perfect and this is where it should stay. However, I am learning to "let go" of those frustrations when they arrise......part of work in this thing will be biting your tongue for quite a while.

Mr. GAG is going to say some things that are going to make your blood boil......try adding children into the mix!!!! That is almost unbearable, very hard for me. I was reminded of this yesterday as I was having lunch with my STBXW. She made some comment about wanting to set a good example for the children, I took the bait and responded....that was a mistake, no matter what I want. It just leads to more frustration for me when she does not see the logic and sanity of what I am saying. Not healthy for me......and ME is the most important person right now.

Keep up the FLIRTING......he is definitely responding!!!!

Can't wait for the de-brief!!!!

Cheers