Hey girl…sorry I have been MIA for a while. I am just getting caught up on everyone sitchs.
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ok...im having a really hard time last night and today.
It’s okay to have hard times from time to time. We all do. You know what….tomorrow is another day. So give yourself a break to feel what you are feeling today and then tomorrow CHOOSE feel differently.
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Im ill that I asked H if he could keep the kids part of the weekend since Ive had them the past 2.
F*ck him. He doesn’t want the kids. Fine he will ultimately realize what he missed out on.
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Just one night, Saturday would have been fine, so I could go out and do something....well, he decided that thursday night is when he will keep them. Friday is part of the weekend so he would keep them part of Friday. OK, that helps me none! None what so ever! He wouldnt budge on it either....
You know I struggled with how to respond to this one…..here is my idea. Once again in the interest of taking YOUR life back…..I would pack up the kids and drop them off. Period – no questions asked, none….let him figure it out. Stop trying to make everything so damn easy for him.
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got plans with the gf both nights i guess.
And you care why? Com’on Kissak. Is the issue here that he will not be with the kids OR is it really that you are pissed that he will be with GF? If the later, then honestly you need to get to a place where you just say f*ck it. Know why? Cause honestly if you sit down for a second and look at yourself, consider what type of person YOU are…well then you will realize that all of this is HIS LOSS not YOUR.
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so now im stuck home with the kids all weekend
Is staying “stuck” home all day what YOU want? If not, then change it. Either drop off the kids with a baby sitter, drop them off with daddy or figure something out. Take the frustration that you are feeling right now and apply it to a solution instead of the problem.
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my son has his bday party on Sunday
Me and mine send your son Happy Birthday wishes. I say go out and get your son a kick as* birthday gift.
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if my H tells me to SMILE one more time IM gonna deck him!!
Far be it for me to tell you NOT to do this BUT if you are gonna “deck him” can you set up a camera and upload the video to YOUTUBE
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If I am smiling it surely wont be because of him!!!!
Believe it or not…one day YOU will be smiling BECAUSE OF HIM. One day, when you finally realize the gift you have been given…you just may want to say thank you to him.
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Dealing with a little resentment today
Feel it, let it go and then pick your as* up and go figure out how you can get some time for youself.
Happy New Year!
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
