Crossroads

[Kemper]

The earliest Retrouvaille weekend close to where I live is the end of February.

Has she actually said that she is ready to work on the M?

Yes, she even suggested MC, and stated that it will take work on both of our parts. However, to me action speaks louder than words and I haven't seen any action on her part.

Based on a conversation last weekend W mentioned that she has tried to break it off with OM multiple times, but he keeps telling her that everything will be ok, or things will change and she keeps going back to him. During this conversation SHE started throwing out potential solutions to keep him from contacting her. I wasn't trying to fix this or provide input as I feel it is her responsibility to end this.

Since OM works odd hours and lives 800 miles away W said she wanted to break it off over the phone vs. by text/email. She said she was going to do it this week but time will only tell. I understand that people are different but if something is important to me I take action on it ASAP.

As far as W is concerned, I have no interest in moving forward if OM is still in the picture. MC, Retro, to me are contingent on the R with OM being finished.

Again, thank you guys for all the advice and support. It is truly appreciated.