Hey yrsofhurt,
I went and read some of your posts.
My god I saw your post about your son saying that your H should move back because you were not fighting.
You are absolutely right in that life is so simple. We should all just work it out, especially since we have kids.
I am in exactly the same situation. My X and I get along great. My daughter always tries to put us together. It really is that simple.

My mom left my dad 40 years ago. She recently told me that had my dad offered an once of effort to at least try to work on things that she would have worked it out with him. She does say that she is 100% happy with the man she re-married but had me dad even tried she would have kept our family intact.
My mom is livid that my XW does not even try to do anything given that I would do anything/everything for my family.

I am at the point where seeing the pain my kids are in and that my XW will do nothing that I am starting to really not like my XW.


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09