I have followed this board for a while but never posted. Have been GAL'ing for a while but here's a little background. I peg start of MLC June 2009. For me that was first time we shared a kiss and I knew something was off. Got the bomb March 2010(I dont feel the same about you anymore. We have lived together since with me giving her space and me GAL'ing. She informed me last night she is moving out.(She has threatend this before but never did). I think she is doing it this time. She uses that nothing has changed for her.
If there is another person involed it is a GF where she gets her emotional gratification. Whats wierd the GF is kind of needy and my wife always is the control type so it would fit her personality.
My question is when you think the OP is the same sex and it is a girl(best friend) thing going on is there anything else to do but let her go and let it run its course.