At this point I feel that I shouldn't have revealed that GF and I were over. I also feel that if working on us was important to W then OM would already be out of the picture. In my mind it doesn't take days to contact OM and break it off.
You are correct. You should not have revealed that information right now.
You probably do not see this as pursuing,but it is big-time pursuing. Has she actually said that she is ready to work on the M? As long as she keeps OM in the wings, she won't be ready. Now, she sees how easy it was for you to drop GF for her.Some women respond to a challenge,especially where their man is concerned,but you made it too easy.
What's done is done, but maybe you should run an idea across the board before you act on a good friend's advice. Be unavailable for a few days,and don't appologize for every call you miss. If it's something important about the kids,she'll let you know.
I am with Lotus on the Retro. Mtg. That is a good goal to work towards, but if I understand it....they won't take a couple if there is a third party. So, if she had not ended the A by the time to register,etc., then she's still playing games.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
