No sex since June, no hug since before Thanksgiving, no "I Love You" since who knows when and when together just bumps on log from both of us. Never any real communication. Family is in town right now and parents and the 2 of us went to lunch. Very awkward siting next to each other. Very obvious no emotion to me. 2 kids involved. bomb was dropped by her in May that she no longer feel love for me as a husband.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out