Hi JR09, is there any legal ramifications for your W to move to another state with the boys? Why does she feel so strong to have to run?
The Treasure Valley is such a big area but all so close together, you could move to a close town and still be close or move to the same town and still be far away. Can you deal with her ultimatum if she follows thru with it?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.