Significant or not, a mistake would be trying to read something out of the behavior.
It's not so much trying to "read" something out of her actions/words. It's more trying to get a sense of where some of these "What the hell just happened?!" moments come from with our MLC spouse(s). I believe it was 'Snodderly' who posted something in a different thread recently that resonated with me. It was a thread about a Christmas miracle, or something like that. She said something along the lines of how the holidays get to the MLC spouse and increase their desire [somewhat] to reconcile. Then, when the holiday season passes, it's kind of like "Poof!" and they run and hide again inside themselves. It kind of made sense to me.
