The kicking her out of the house thing? That was just me being frustrated. I would never do that. I would never make anything uncomfortable for the kids or her.

Denver, I am definately in limbo, and you may be correct about her being in limbo and plotting an exit strategy. That is what I am afraid of, and I am not prepared to move away from my kids. Heck, I am just getting attached like I should of always been.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair