Cas, (((( ))))) you are in my thoughts. Sometimes I think we need to get to the point where we take our WASs off their pedestals and don't really care what happens. We need to do this to take care of ourselves and our families. Let H be angry and spew to whomever will listen. You will not be there listening to him. At some point he will realize that no one is listening to him, just like a crying 2 year old. I will be checking in on you in the alt.

Sanderika, thank you SO much for that post!!!!!!!! It was full of hard-earned wisdom. Every word was meaningful. You are amazing! Thank you for sharing with all of us.

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