Yes, that's me too. At 54 I'm not having any more babies - and I just got my three off to college, I'm not looking to adopt or raise some guy's young children. Don't get me wrong, I love kids - but I'm ready to enjoy some time off from child-rearing.
So - if a guy hasn't had kids and wants them, it's just a heartbreak waiting to happen to get involved with them, whatever age they are. It's not so much about age as it is about stage of life.
