GAL with waw. Stuck bad.

[Denver_2010]

I think that you have two options. One, continue doing what you are doing indefinitely waiting for her to continue to soften and waiting for the right opportunity to address the R/M with W. Two, move out of the house yourself to shake things up a little. That would be taking a different approach. I think you moving out would remove a lot of the resentment that Bond talks about with you kicking her out of the house. You can tell her that you are moving out to give both of you space to figure things out and leave it at that. Obviously there are huge risks with option two, but it may be the only way to get her to miss you and start thinking about whether or not she wants M. She seems more than fine being limbo right now. Also, I think that you need to consider the possibility that she is planning how and when she is going to leave the house herself. I know that my wife and lived in limbo for months. Little did I know that she was building up the courage to leave and planning how she was going to do it. By the time I figured it out, it was too late. I wish that I had been preemptive in leaving. I think that the table would have been turned had I done this.