For some reason, he struck me as more of a "haven't married yet but really want to" kind of guy, rather than "been there, done that". In which case, I really wouldn't be right for him.
Isn't it funny how our expectations change? Whereas at one point in your ife you would have been receptive to a full on committment, now you find yourself feeling wary.
Oh wait, maybe that's just me. LOL.
It's not necessarily that expectations change, as much as reality has changed. I am 45 years old and cannot have kids anymore. So any man who hasn't been married or had kids is probably not a good match for me. I wass married for over 20 years....not reallu sure if I want to go down that road again. Life changes us and what we want from it!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn