So what did you tell your W?

Look the basic premise with DB is that you do what works. The no R talk is something that is misunderstood alot by newbies. You do the no R talk in the beginning to relieve the pressure. If you see the WAS is open to it, then you address it.

It's not that you NEVER address it. It's the fact that you pick the time and conditions when it will work in your favor. Many LBSs believe the R talk means that you demand the WAS make a decision. It doesn't work that way. Would it work on you if the roles were reversed?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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