I packed up every item that OW had ever given me or H and I as a couple and put them in a box (lots of stuff). Two large framed pictures - one a water color from her visit to Paris and one created by her amazingly talented daughter. I had the box and pictures in my dining room and wasn't sure what to do with them. After returning from work I noticed the items were gone. I asked H what happened to them and he gave me a small smile and said "I got rid of them, don't worry about it". In our past life (pre Kaboom), a common response from him was, "don't worry your pretty little head..." and I could sense he almost 'went there' but knew he shouldn't. My secret hope was he had put them in the garbage but I peeked in the bins and, nope, not there.
I'm going to ask him to tell me what happened to the items and I'm going to tell him "don't worry about it" is an unacceptable answer to any future questions I have.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence