That's too funny bc you hit the nail on the head, ladies...
When I was on Match (I canceled it a couple weeks ago) I weeded out a lot of guys in late 20s/early 30s who were never married. They struck me as looking for the wife/future kids package and I have already done that...
In fact the guy I am casually seeing now actually asked me what I was looking for on our 4th date. He said he was not ready for anything serious so soon after his divorce and I was actually relieved! I said I was not looking for that either, just for someone fun to hang out with sometimes. He was relieved too...