Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

Sandi - I am doing just fine. I am detaching like never before. I am ready to be done with this. That might not be what people on these boards want to hear, but this time I am done. Strenght and honor as one wise man likes to say. I have given her more than enough chances, I've been hurt too many times, I can be happier alone than with her. So much damage has been done, its time to move on. Time to be happy and look forward to 2011. Time to face fear and act anyways. I can't keep on going like I have been for the last year. I gave it my best, I changed, but she hasn't. W has too many deep rooted issues that obviously she is unwilling or unable to face. It is an addiction but more than that.

So, I am now trying to get her out of the house. Time for her to move out. She is resisting, saying I should move out, but I am holding my ground. We have had discussions on how to financially handle things and we are getting close to an agreement.