I know - that is why I haven't told ANYONE except you all. Last night he didn't text me at all (which was strange) but I thought he was probably with her. Was he letting her know or was he chickening out? I tried to remain calm and not think about it. I did a pretty good job too - very little stress.
This morning first thing he text me and said that he was sorry he didn't talk to me last night he had gone to bed early from lack of sleep from work. was this the truth? who knows, but I didn't question it.
He told me he was on his way to work. He text me a couple hours later and asked if he could see me tomorrow. I said yes I would see him. I won't push him to tell me if he has broken it off with the OW or not, or even if he will be moving in at the end of the week like he said. I will just let him tell me. No pressure. No controlling him or the situation.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12