I would still like to hear from some others on this.

I can not comment right or wrong, because I really have no idea. I just know I am not strong enough to leave my house and kids.

I have also thrown around the idea of asking her to leave, She wants the D. I do not think she has ever thought about that before.

If the D ever did come, I would not fight her for the house. It would be for her and the kids. The image of someday another man in my house with my kids? Now that's a different story. Hopefully that problem is left for a different day that never comes.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair