Advice needed quickly (see below). I have been layng low for a month.
Things have been about the same, except that after the end of the semester and visiting my family I am home "permanently" now.
We had a good Christmas together; not great but good. Just the two of us.
We are entering counseling this week. However, while we are going as a couple we are planning to do individual work with the same therapist, to make sure both of us are ready for couples. We actually aren't at that point yet, unfortunately, with her convinced she wants to leave the marriage.
SPEAKING OF WHICH... she has not slept well since I came home. Last night she tried moving to the living room. We discussed this... I didn't like the idea of her "separating" but went with it. She came back to bed in a few hours.
Now she wants to go stay at a friends' empty apartment to get sleep. (they are out of town)
Should I say "hey, can we talk about this?" Or just let it play?
