I did call a lawyer. The paralegal/secy said there's no point in a paying for a consultation until I get served, and they can see what she wants.
And I don't care about the money either.
She's more afraid of depleating all our resources than anyone, hence the roommates fantasy. Kids are in private school, D17 will want to go to college, money means everything to her now. That's one of my 180's; I used to worry and complain about it; now I don't even care.
Her saying that she wants to distance the D from the holidays gives me a little time. EA started in the beginning of August and by the end of January it'll have been seven months. She's been to see him; he's no prize (I checked out his facebook). He's married, lives 500 miles away; past the initial excitment there's nothing to build on there.
Whenever I'm in prayer I sense God telling me to give God a month. That kind of works out with putting Christmas in the rear view mirror, so we'll see what happens. If she still wants that ugly MF, she can have him.
She still doesn't realize that if I lose the house, I'm not staying to play house dad and be her roomie while she lives the single life. Oh no baby - it'll me that lives the single life - and I fully intend to make the best of it.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
