i text h on dec 23 and said i was sorry for not being the wife he needed me to be. he text back when is your brothers birthday and what do you want for xmas. i said i dont need anything. my son and i left to go to my sisters on dec 24. h text why didnt u tell me when u were leaving i had gifts for ryan be careful.i think h was angry he didnt see son. on xmas he called son and said merry xmas ant tell mommy merry xmas and my family. i text him and said merry xmas to him and his mother. we got couldnt come home until dec 27 because there was a blizzard where i live and its my sons bday and h didnt get to see him for his bday. i havent heard anything from h since yesterday when i text him if the highways were clear. he said probably but be super careful driving. do you think i should stop contact with him and see what happens.