Trying to move forward....

[kissak]

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas! I did! I enjoyed every minute of it! Even when my H took the kids christmas eve to his family, I was ok. I visited with my grandmother for a while.

Well, to update on the affair with the married woman....funny to me. I told my H later that night that the husband to this woman had called me. H wasnt surprised, of course he was told by the man's wife that I was the one who told him and that he and I had been speaking for a couple months....wow, that is NOT so. I talked with my H about it on Christmas eve, after he brought the kids home, we put them to bed, he helped me get the gifts under that tree for them then we sat and talked. I told him that there seemed to be more to all of this. He of course gave me his side, which was very convincing, if I had believed him, but I went along with him. At first he said this was just a flirtatous R. Then I told him that I knew it was more than that for this woman to be acting this way over him. Then he admitted to doing something with her LAST year....Im sure that after that one romance...ugh, that she is all of a sudden going to freak out about the time she finds out you have a new gf...right, this has been going on for a while with them...he just wont admit it. He said her plans were to leave her H in January...now she is upset because in her mind, she was going to be with my H!! SO, now she is texting him, calling him, emailing him even after he has told her he cant talk to her anymore per request of her H. She is seriously stalking him...calling him on every phone he has, sending him these long emails, which he showed me....All I could say to him was that they needed to keep me out of it and HE needed to be careful who he messed around with!!

So that is my H's drama for the holidays....glad he is reaping some of what he has sowed....

I had a great Christmas!!I loved seeing my kids get almost everything they wanted! I am sooo blessed!!