I am in no better position than you to give any advice on your last post. But, I will be waiting for a response to it, because I have also had thoughts of moving out.
My wife would also talk if I asked her to, but I know in DBing that is wrong. I am just afraid she will never initiate a R talk even if she wanted to. This is one of the reasons we are in this sitch, no communication. She just avoids stuff like this,always has.
I will be waiting for a response with you.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair