Well this morning before I left for work, she finally gets up the gumption to "talk" - the one she promised/threatened right before trip to see OM.
She said we have to attand a mandatory parenting class and do I want to go together. I said I don't know, havn't thought about that. Then she asked me if I talked to a lawyer; I said no I have only talked to a secretary (but I think she was really a paralegal).
Then she asked about one of our mutual friends from church if I had told him anything b/c he acted funny around her. I truthfully said no I hardly ever see him. This is the second friend whose made her uncomfortable. Like I posted earlier, people are only human; things get around.
Then she said she spoke privately w/D17 about things not going well between us (WELL DUH!) and we would wait till she graduates from HS to seperate (remember she still wants her D settlement but live as roomies). She said D17 took it ok. I responded she's hiding her feelings (just like me on bomb day b/c her personality takes after her dad) Of course W was in total denial about that.
The I "gently" put it to her:
"I can't help you, I will not sit before kids and say 'Mommy and Daddy agree to such and such' b/c that would be a lie; I don't agree to a D"
"What are you going to do then?"
"Guess I'll just wait for you to file."
"Well I want to put the holidays behind us so it's not associated with Christmas."
HOW SWEET !
I expect the EA will fizzle soon enough, but the MLC - WTF knows?
She's in total lala land and does not realize, that when I get served, I will fight for every last brick and penny.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
