Originally Posted By: AntoniaB
I'm just concerned that no one else will.

Why? That's the question I take to bed with me. It drives me deep within myself searching for the roots of things. Are you going to try to tell me that men don't find curvy women attractive? 'Cause honey, that just ain't true!!! LOL ... in all seriousness, start here ... dig here ... and yeah, I get the surface confidence, I had that too. Most people in my life thought I was very confident and comfortable in my own skin. But it took time. And did I mention the digging? I think Eric has a pretty, glittery, lilac-colored shovel he'll probably let you borrow wink

Originally Posted By: AntoniaB
I'll keep trying to dig at this root cause, though.

This is key ... happy digging!

Peace
PEI


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc