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Luv didn't give up her ex did #2112436 12/08/10 05:43 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	Our divorce was final yesterday. I felt a weird sense of peace and didn't feel sad as I thought I would. I will journal here for a while. I have posted so much devastation I really hope to change all that. I am ready for 2011. It is going to way better than 2010. Luv M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did luvless #2112474 12/08/10 02:00 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372 S soleil Member
soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	Luv, it was a long road but now you can finally start the new chapter of your life. Woot woot to a new year full of new beginnings. Hope you are well! Me: 29 Got a ticket to the D concert

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did soleil #2112528 12/08/10 05:34 PM
Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 18,913 Likes: 317 K kml Member
kml Member K Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 18,913 Likes: 317	Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!!

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did kml #2112530 12/08/10 05:36 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372 S soleil Member
soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	Originally Posted By: kml Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!! Hahaha. I think it's safe to say you have detached and that is always a good thing How much longer for yours, Kml? Me: 29 Got a ticket to the D concert

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did soleil #2112561 12/08/10 07:37 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,873 SoCal I ImprovedRomeo Member
ImprovedRomeo Member I Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,873 SoCal	Luv, sorry to hear it but I'm glad that it's finally over so you can continue to move forward without the stupid D hanging over your head. From now on it's about you and the kids and I just know you guys will be OK! Enjoy the holidays and here's to a great 2011 for all of us! (((hugs))) Me: 35\|WAW: 38\|D: 6yo \| http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did kml #2112629 12/09/10 12:28 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	Originally Posted By: kml Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!! Well I'm not technically "done." We still have to settle on alimony and other stuff. He has been trying to settle out of court. It is the smart thing to do. We'll see. Thanks for the well wishes guys. M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did luvless #2113488 12/13/10 04:29 AM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,567 somewhere out there... V verycrazy Member
verycrazy Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,567 somewhere out there...	It makes my heart ache for you, but I am glad you are "happy" with moving on. I hope God blesses you in your new life.

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did verycrazy #2116487 12/28/10 04:10 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	thanks verycrazy....you too Romeo I am not "happy" with how this all turned out. I thought my marriage could be saved early on but quickly learned my ex husband had no intention. Things are getting better. I have a couple of men who want to date me so it is starting to get interesting. I sure am glad 2010 is almost over it was one hell of a year. Luv M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did luvless #2116490 12/28/10 04:15 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO G Golfgirl1 Member
Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	Oh luvless, Please, please, please take some time for yourself before you start dating again. Too many people start dating to fill up the emptiness inside when YOU must be the one to fill that hole up all by yourself. Find you again, learn to be single again, and when you come to the realization that if you remain single for the rest of your life you will be just fine....then you are ready to date!! Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: Luv didn't give up her ex did Golfgirl1 #2116515 12/28/10 12:26 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 Member
NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	adding you to my watch list so I can catch up Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

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