I agree with Walking. He needs time and space to miss you. So, don't let your heart give in ... say 'no' to his wanting to get together as a family. It's all a charade anyway. He's allowing your D to think it's okay to have OW, and also family. This is not the example you want for her.

Take care. I love the oak tree metaphor. cool


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim