I can't point to one specific thing in the conversation, but a lot of little things led me to that conclusion. We were talking about dating, about his online experience, about his difficulties dating since he travels back and forth between NY and LA. He doesn't appear to have kids, he just seemed like a guy who was looking for "the one", wife and kids scenario. For some reason, he struck me as more of a "haven't married yet but really want to" kind of guy, rather than "been there, done that". In which case, I really wouldn't be right for him. No more childbearing for me!

Still, if he lived in town, he was a guy I would at least go out on a date with. He was smart, fit, tallish for an Asian guy, very involved with a great charity. And although it's hard to guess his age, I'd put him somewhere in his early 40's - definitely a feasible age. But only really feasible for me if a guy has already had kids, or doesn't want them.