Irish, you get it ... I know you do ... now it's time to really dig for it, and figure it out as it relates to you ... make it fit, so to speak. Knowing "it" intellectually and feeling it are two different things, and feeling it takes more time. You are so right to seek that relationship with yourself. Learn who Irish is ... when all the masks and roles and stereotypes are stripped away ... who is Irish and what does she want for her life? What fills her up? What makes her tick?
(((hugs))) PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc