About D: I do and I don't. I honestly don't want to be married to the woman my W has become. But somewhere inside the alien is the person I fell in love with. She's in there somewhere. I don't know whether she'll show up again though. I do know MLC takes a long, long time. I know I will not sit side by side with her and tell the Kids "mommy and daddy agree to a D and break up of the family." That would be a lie. If she wants it she needs to pay that lawer and file. Then I will will deal with it. That's the legtal advice I have gotten. Makes me the victim.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
