Luvless going to surviving the big D

[luvless]

I'm still working on a settlement with ex. He keeps pressuring me to settle but I don't like his proposal and he obviously didn't like mine.

He is worried about attorney expenses. It baffles me why he didn't realize divorce is expensive.

I had a great Christmas with the kids. It was so nice to them happy. We spent some quality time together on Christmas eve and day. Last year was horrible so we definately made up this year. Ex was around the house making everyone miserable with his drinking and texting his coworker. We all knew what he was doing and it was upsetting us all.

Kids went to see him on Christmas afternoon for gifts and dinner. They came home complaining that he didn't even sit at the table with them. Instead he sat with the family he lives with while my kids were at another table. It made me sick to my stomach. Who does that? He never sees them. Invites them to a strangers home for a family oriented holiday and then doesn't even sit with them? I'm freaked out to think this man used to be my husband. He is insane! and incapable of having EMPATHY for the family he left.

We're doing ok...better everyday but we still have to deal with him and his lack of consideration for any of our feelings.

Luv